I’m pregnant—help me decide

Your situation deserves to be heard before you decide.

A gentle, private conversation to notice safety, pressure, practical barriers and the feelings underneath. It will not score you or make a decision for you.

○ No account required • Answers stay on this screen

Our perspective—stated plainly

We are life-affirming, not value-neutral.

Held With Hope believes women and developing life have dignity. We hope every woman can give continuing her pregnancy a real, supported chance—not because fear is used against her, but because fear is met with truthful information and practical care.

We will not shame you, disguise persuasion as clinical advice, or tell you that a quiz can decide. Your medical decisions remain yours.

Decision Companion

Eight questions. No score. One clearer next step.

This takes about five minutes. Nothing is sent, stored or added to an account. You may stop at any time, use Quick exit, or go directly to practical or professional support.

  • Start with immediate safety and medical care
  • Check whether pressure is affecting your freedom
  • Notice which option or fact is still unclear
  • Bring evidence together with your values and circumstances
  • Leave with questions and actions shaped by your answers

Orient yourself

Three broad paths deserve accurate information.

This is a starting map, not a complete comparison or a recommendation. A qualified clinician and relevant service should explain what applies to your health, gestation and state or territory.

01

Continue and parent

Explore antenatal care, health considerations, partner or family support, housing, income, childcare, study and work. Ask what practical help is confirmed—not only promised.

Call Pregnancy Help Australia · 1300 139 313 →
02

Continue and consider adoption or other care

Learn about adoption, foster care, permanent care and kinship care from an appropriate Australian service. Ask about consent, legal steps, contact arrangements and emotional support.

Read the Australian options overview ↗
03

Abortion

Ask a qualified provider about available methods, timing, what to expect, pain relief, possible complications, follow-up, costs and what symptoms need urgent care.

Read the clinical overview →

A human next step

Know the perspective of the service you call.

These organisations informed the listening and practical-support flow. We label their perspective so you can choose knowingly.

Life-affirming • Australia

Diamond Women

Free support that describes itself as judgement-free, including counselling, mentoring and practical pregnancy or parenting support.

Visit Diamond Women ↗Call 1300 851 592
Australia-wide

Pregnancy Help Australia

A pregnancy-support helpline and directory for participating centres across Australia, open 8 am–10 pm AEST.

Find a centre ↗Call 1300 139 313

Free pregnancy support · Australia-wide

Pregnancy Help Australia

A free, confidential helpline and directory that can connect you with participating pregnancy-support centres around Australia.

Call 1300 139 313Text 0483 952 605Helpline: 8 am–10 pm AEST, 7 days · text only on the mobile number
02

Ask about practical help

Participating centres may offer essential baby items, help with forms, parenting preparation, mentoring and links to financial, housing or safety services.

See their free-support overview ↗
03

Know the boundary

The helpline is not medical, legal or emergency care and does not provide or refer for abortion. Ask a qualified clinician for medical advice and confirm services directly with the hub.

Local support · NSW

Esencia Life Centre

Free pregnancy services

Esencia describes its pregnancy services as free and confidential, including decision support, options consultations, pregnancy tests, parenting education, pregnancy-loss support and abortion-recovery support.

View Esencia’s free pregnancy services ↗
This guide is not a clinical, legal, counselling or emergency service.

Medical timing can matter. A reflective exercise should never delay urgent care, prescribed follow-up or a conversation with a qualified clinician.